Nympho or Not?

This is what I received:

I am newly out and my girlfriend wants to have sex but I don't. I am not ready and she said she has needs that she is a nympho and I can't be mad if she cheats because she needs to have sex. What should I do?

My response:

Being this is my first question and my first response I must warn you that I am blunt and please do not take my bluntness as judgement. Because I am no one to be a "judger". This is simply my opinion and thoughts that come to mind after reading your question. Nothing is fact. With that being said....

How old are you and your girlfriend? And have you asked her what determines her to be a nympho? The BIGGEST question is, why be with someone who can JUSTIFY CHEATING on you?

 My response would be, if I was in your shoes, "bitch you better masturbate! because if you cheat on me there is no coming back from that." or something along those lines.

BUT being serious if you aren't ready to have sex with someone DON'T. There are emotional ties you will have to deal with if you have sex just because someone threatens (pressures) you into doing it. As your girlfriend she should be understanding of your new "outness" and try to show you that your relationship has meaning and is not just about sex. Because that is what it sounds like!

 Now I am assuming that this is your first relationship with a person of the same sex because you said you are newly out. Don't rush, its okay to take risk but rushing knowing that you are still uncomfortable with that decision will have you battling yourself in the end! How long have you guys been together? Don't let someone take advantage of you. Hold your own ground!!

And I think that's all I can say. I hope that helps!

Author YM....




had to come and add this in...after reading that question i have to ask...WHAT CLASSIFIES A NYMPHO AS SUCH? its funny because that is how my novel starts out. A group of women in a meeting talking about how to manage being a nympho and have a successful career without "boning" everyone that walks into your office!  YEP I think that if you want to bone someone every second of the day then you are nypmho!

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What I want to say...

I have a novel out. It is called The L Words: Love Lies Lust Law Loyalty Lesbians. It has been out for about week, self-published and I have sold 17 copies. I have those who say they are going to buy it and others who say congrats. How do I feel about this? I DON'T REALLY KNOW HOW TO FEEL! I mean it would be GREAT to have everyone I know and anyone in the LGBT community to support but its still life. I am still dealing with HOMOSAPIENS. I have some who see the link and because of something in the past they won't click on it...which allows me to switch the subject right here -------------> LET GO OF THE PAST trust me it isn't going to allow you to go too far!! I have learned that holding onto the past hinders your present and definitely doesn't guarantee your future!! Besides you never know who can help you along that staircase to your future! Back to what I was saying -------------> Then there are those who do not own a credit card or debit card for whatever reason which I can understand because I don't trust banks and I do not want to pay a prepaid vendor to have my money on some card!There are also the payday problems or just not having access to the Internet--which not to sound rude but its 2012 there are places with WIFI access! And there is your cell phone! Okay maybe I feel a little irritated and disappointed. Damn those expectations but if you don't have expectations then what are you standards? With that vent being let out!

 I do think that my book has an amazing storyline and not just for the LGBT community but anyone who likes a great thriller and amazing sex!!! Yes amazing sex! Girl on girl and some good penis and vagina scenes also! Very descriptive! I am just saying! check out the link here! www.thelwordbyym.com *SMILES*

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My question and only question to any of my readers is simply are you living or existing?

To live-my definition is to take risk. Don't worry about yesterday because it already happened and you are not a psychic so please don't try to predict the future.

I could ramble on and on about this but at the end of the day it is still your life.