Nympho or Not?

This is what I received:

I am newly out and my girlfriend wants to have sex but I don't. I am not ready and she said she has needs that she is a nympho and I can't be mad if she cheats because she needs to have sex. What should I do?

My response:

Being this is my first question and my first response I must warn you that I am blunt and please do not take my bluntness as judgement. Because I am no one to be a "judger". This is simply my opinion and thoughts that come to mind after reading your question. Nothing is fact. With that being said....

How old are you and your girlfriend? And have you asked her what determines her to be a nympho? The BIGGEST question is, why be with someone who can JUSTIFY CHEATING on you?

 My response would be, if I was in your shoes, "bitch you better masturbate! because if you cheat on me there is no coming back from that." or something along those lines.

BUT being serious if you aren't ready to have sex with someone DON'T. There are emotional ties you will have to deal with if you have sex just because someone threatens (pressures) you into doing it. As your girlfriend she should be understanding of your new "outness" and try to show you that your relationship has meaning and is not just about sex. Because that is what it sounds like!

 Now I am assuming that this is your first relationship with a person of the same sex because you said you are newly out. Don't rush, its okay to take risk but rushing knowing that you are still uncomfortable with that decision will have you battling yourself in the end! How long have you guys been together? Don't let someone take advantage of you. Hold your own ground!!

And I think that's all I can say. I hope that helps!

Author YM....




had to come and add this in...after reading that question i have to ask...WHAT CLASSIFIES A NYMPHO AS SUCH? its funny because that is how my novel starts out. A group of women in a meeting talking about how to manage being a nympho and have a successful career without "boning" everyone that walks into your office!  YEP I think that if you want to bone someone every second of the day then you are nypmho!

What do you think?