Well it is that time of the year! Fireworks! Parades! Drinks! Laughs! Family and Friends! Happy Independence day!! I think.....
For me I am starting to build my empire, put in my leg work to be everything that I want to be. But it comes at a cost. I have to spend scattered time with my family and friends today! And of course there is some backlash! Hopefully they understand! We make time for who we want to make time for and trust I am going to make my time count!!
What about you? How is your fourth?
Eating good? Drinking up? Well enjoy!!!
Ways to enjoy your fourth! First of all be happy! Choice to be happy no matter what happens! This is a day that we are suppose to celebrate Indenpendence! So YOUR choice should be for YOU to be INDEPENDENTLY HAPPY! Yes that has more meaning in it than you know but let it just settle there for right now!
This post is just for you to enjoy your day! So to all my readers Happy 4th of July!!!
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Thursday, June 13, 2013
Single and In Love?
(please excuse any typos in this post, i did something and lost my spell checker)
So single and in love....Is it possible? I think its possible...
My opinion about love it is a choice. Yes I think it is but at first no lie I didn't but I have realized over the years that love comes with effort and we choose who we put our effort into. We choose to let down our guards and get close to someone and let them love us or better yet allow ourselves to love.
Most of the time, me as a female, speaking from experience, we (I) love first. I give without expecting anything back, well not anything. I want love, respect, and honesty...everything else is a bonus. And when I do this I do have intentions of the single, unexclusive dating turning into something more. Well not at first. Sometimes I think I am not emotionally stable enough to just be single. I have been doing well though almost a year in October (there is some debate there)!
With this being said being single and in love isn't the worst but it isn't the safest thing because it is easy to get hurt. Giving someone your time and effort even with no titles while having fun is great but eventually that changes. You evolve relationship tendencies without the title.
Single with relationship tendency causes for confusion and unhappiness. It can be fun and exciting and motivating but eventually it evolves into more and you don't want to stay at the same level. You don't want to be 5 months in to something new and fun and still be at the same place you were at 2 weeks into whatever it is you are doing. What does that get you? Are you cheating yourself? Is it what you really want?
Lately I have been into Rob Hill Sr. (be sure to follow him on instagram @robhillsr and twitter) and I agree with him saying find someone to increase you and always be ready to build yourself! And I just feel staying at the same place doing the same thing for a long period of time isn't building.
So is being single and in love settling? I guess it isn't if it is what you want but it has to be what you want. You cant do it to please the person you are being single and in love with because even though it isnt a relationship with the title, you are still apart of some type of relationship, you are a factor and your feelings do matter. It isnt wrong to voice that you want more or to leave what you were doing to go and find someone who wants the same thing that you want.
Then there is this side...being single and in love is the greatest feeling. You get to laugh and play and learn each other without the pressures of that title. It isnt forced it is just there. It isnt the movies or tv shows its real. Its what you and that person has agreed to do.
Then of course there comes the "it's so good I want more". I have a problem with this. You know just letting things be. I always feel there is a need for growth but then I have to realize you don't control the growth it just happens.
So when it comes to being single and in love.. I think it is very possible...I say do what makes you happy but be careful that you arent stuck somewhere you dont want to be or trying to force something that can be so simple.
Please feel free to get a discussion on this post going! I would love some feedback! Make sure you sign into an account to leave a post!
Thank you for the support!
Follow me on IG and Twitter : beau2fulyhonest
So single and in love....Is it possible? I think its possible...
My opinion about love it is a choice. Yes I think it is but at first no lie I didn't but I have realized over the years that love comes with effort and we choose who we put our effort into. We choose to let down our guards and get close to someone and let them love us or better yet allow ourselves to love.
Most of the time, me as a female, speaking from experience, we (I) love first. I give without expecting anything back, well not anything. I want love, respect, and honesty...everything else is a bonus. And when I do this I do have intentions of the single, unexclusive dating turning into something more. Well not at first. Sometimes I think I am not emotionally stable enough to just be single. I have been doing well though almost a year in October (there is some debate there)!
With this being said being single and in love isn't the worst but it isn't the safest thing because it is easy to get hurt. Giving someone your time and effort even with no titles while having fun is great but eventually that changes. You evolve relationship tendencies without the title.
Single with relationship tendency causes for confusion and unhappiness. It can be fun and exciting and motivating but eventually it evolves into more and you don't want to stay at the same level. You don't want to be 5 months in to something new and fun and still be at the same place you were at 2 weeks into whatever it is you are doing. What does that get you? Are you cheating yourself? Is it what you really want?
Lately I have been into Rob Hill Sr. (be sure to follow him on instagram @robhillsr and twitter) and I agree with him saying find someone to increase you and always be ready to build yourself! And I just feel staying at the same place doing the same thing for a long period of time isn't building.
So is being single and in love settling? I guess it isn't if it is what you want but it has to be what you want. You cant do it to please the person you are being single and in love with because even though it isnt a relationship with the title, you are still apart of some type of relationship, you are a factor and your feelings do matter. It isnt wrong to voice that you want more or to leave what you were doing to go and find someone who wants the same thing that you want.
Then there is this side...being single and in love is the greatest feeling. You get to laugh and play and learn each other without the pressures of that title. It isnt forced it is just there. It isnt the movies or tv shows its real. Its what you and that person has agreed to do.
Then of course there comes the "it's so good I want more". I have a problem with this. You know just letting things be. I always feel there is a need for growth but then I have to realize you don't control the growth it just happens.
So when it comes to being single and in love.. I think it is very possible...I say do what makes you happy but be careful that you arent stuck somewhere you dont want to be or trying to force something that can be so simple.
Please feel free to get a discussion on this post going! I would love some feedback! Make sure you sign into an account to leave a post!
Thank you for the support!
Follow me on IG and Twitter : beau2fulyhonest
Monday, June 10, 2013
Missed Me?
Okay I have 9 minutes left of work and decided to show my face! Well my words!
I have started a lot of new journeys since I last blogged!
I am at a new job and that is another story!
I have a new book coming out! YES!! Not Mine to Keep will be my second self published novel and I am excited about it.
I also have a ghostwriting project I worked on called the Perfect Storm look out for that I am not sure when it will be released but it is coming!!!! Shout out to Storyteller AKG
Okay enough about me! How have my readers been? Lol I speak as if I have so many but I do know that I have a few! Which I am most definitely happy to have!
Well this was just a blog to let you know I am back!
Oh yeah I have an emailing list I am compiling for free short stories if you would like to be apart of them please leave a comment with your email address!
Until my next blog! Which will be very soon have a great day!!
Be sure to follow me on IG and twitter: beau2fulyhonest
I have started a lot of new journeys since I last blogged!
I am at a new job and that is another story!
I have a new book coming out! YES!! Not Mine to Keep will be my second self published novel and I am excited about it.
I also have a ghostwriting project I worked on called the Perfect Storm look out for that I am not sure when it will be released but it is coming!!!! Shout out to Storyteller AKG
Okay enough about me! How have my readers been? Lol I speak as if I have so many but I do know that I have a few! Which I am most definitely happy to have!
Well this was just a blog to let you know I am back!
Oh yeah I have an emailing list I am compiling for free short stories if you would like to be apart of them please leave a comment with your email address!
Until my next blog! Which will be very soon have a great day!!
Be sure to follow me on IG and twitter: beau2fulyhonest
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