HEATING IT UP

It is officially summer and the HEAT has kicked in!
I mean literally! Yesterday, the Miami Heat took the NBA championship! Today it is a beautiful 92 degrees (if not hotter)! And my next door NIGERIAN neighbor has her big pot over an open flame. It also sounds like my neighbor 3 houses down has a dog in HEAT!
So when I say the HEAT has kicked in I mean in all AREAS!!!

NOW MOVING ON TO SOME BRIEF TOPICS

• With it being summer I think a lot of fashions are going to SHOW that they are the HOTTEST TREND! But I say start your own trend. It is 2012 and you may never know who you will inspire!!

• Relationships are going to end and flings are going to begin! Just everyone be safe and wrap it up! You don't want to get a BURNING sensation!

• For those who love movies! There are a lot of good movies coming out this summer! And for the ones that have came out, sorry I have yet to see them! :) I am however, looking forward to the new ICE AGE coming out July 13, 2012! It has Drake (yes a very HOT rapper) doing one of the new voices!

• For food lovers! PLEASE TRY SOMETHING NEW this summer! SPICE it up and introduce your taste buds to something different!! Don't be afraid!!!

• Now for my book lovers or those who just love to read anything! Start your own blog! Post your HOT TOPIC opinions about the different things you have read! Tell about the culture or anything else that may interest someone!

With that being said! I have officialy finished 50 shades of Grey, 50 shades Darker, and 50 shades Freed!

Yes they were amazing reads! Kept my interest until the very end! But I did have disappointing moments. First, I think E.L James is a very detailed author and I loved what she did with all of her characters! But there were times were I felt she got bored or tired and just gave up on several scenes. I felt as if you have already wrote 1500 pages plus! Why are you trying to CHEAT ME OUT OF YOUR GENIUS MIND! GIVE ME MORE!

I do recommend that everyone reads this trilogy and also tell me some of what you are reading this summer.

Have an amazing summer!

All the Worrying...

It is hard starting over. It is hard beginning again. It is like you stopped breathing and you forgot how to breathe, so now you are learning how to breathe all over again. Then you realize you were never taught to breathe, you have just always been breathing...

I am trying breathe. I self published my first novel a month and two weeks ago. I have sold 70 books, some royalty based and some on my own. But for some reason I feel the need to try to teach myself how to breathe through all this. I am guess I am impatient. I just thought differently.

And all of the connects that I had none of them are really falling through. All I have right are words from people. People I thought to be trustworthy and loyal and actions over words. But clearly that is not true.

I spoke to an old friend and they asked me...what are you going to do once you have exhausted all of your friends and family. What then?

Then I asked myself what if all those people say no, and everyone says no? What am I going to do? How do I not give up?

I am looking up people like Zane and Fiona Zedde to see their journey from self publishing to becoming a known author. But there is my problem......IT IS THEIR JOURNEY.

I am trying to breathe....if I could just teach myself how to breathe.....if I could just remember how to breathe...I could do this...

It is sad say that I don't think I have finished any of the goals I have set for myself. I have started them and not finished them. I don't want this to be another goal I set and not finished.

With all the worrying I keep trying to teach myself how to breathe....

Nympho or Not?

This is what I received:

I am newly out and my girlfriend wants to have sex but I don't. I am not ready and she said she has needs that she is a nympho and I can't be mad if she cheats because she needs to have sex. What should I do?

My response:

Being this is my first question and my first response I must warn you that I am blunt and please do not take my bluntness as judgement. Because I am no one to be a "judger". This is simply my opinion and thoughts that come to mind after reading your question. Nothing is fact. With that being said....

How old are you and your girlfriend? And have you asked her what determines her to be a nympho? The BIGGEST question is, why be with someone who can JUSTIFY CHEATING on you?

 My response would be, if I was in your shoes, "bitch you better masturbate! because if you cheat on me there is no coming back from that." or something along those lines.

BUT being serious if you aren't ready to have sex with someone DON'T. There are emotional ties you will have to deal with if you have sex just because someone threatens (pressures) you into doing it. As your girlfriend she should be understanding of your new "outness" and try to show you that your relationship has meaning and is not just about sex. Because that is what it sounds like!

 Now I am assuming that this is your first relationship with a person of the same sex because you said you are newly out. Don't rush, its okay to take risk but rushing knowing that you are still uncomfortable with that decision will have you battling yourself in the end! How long have you guys been together? Don't let someone take advantage of you. Hold your own ground!!

And I think that's all I can say. I hope that helps!

Author YM....




had to come and add this in...after reading that question i have to ask...WHAT CLASSIFIES A NYMPHO AS SUCH? its funny because that is how my novel starts out. A group of women in a meeting talking about how to manage being a nympho and have a successful career without "boning" everyone that walks into your office!  YEP I think that if you want to bone someone every second of the day then you are nypmho!

What do you think?

What I want to say...

I have a novel out. It is called The L Words: Love Lies Lust Law Loyalty Lesbians. It has been out for about week, self-published and I have sold 17 copies. I have those who say they are going to buy it and others who say congrats. How do I feel about this? I DON'T REALLY KNOW HOW TO FEEL! I mean it would be GREAT to have everyone I know and anyone in the LGBT community to support but its still life. I am still dealing with HOMOSAPIENS. I have some who see the link and because of something in the past they won't click on it...which allows me to switch the subject right here -------------> LET GO OF THE PAST trust me it isn't going to allow you to go too far!! I have learned that holding onto the past hinders your present and definitely doesn't guarantee your future!! Besides you never know who can help you along that staircase to your future! Back to what I was saying -------------> Then there are those who do not own a credit card or debit card for whatever reason which I can understand because I don't trust banks and I do not want to pay a prepaid vendor to have my money on some card!There are also the payday problems or just not having access to the Internet--which not to sound rude but its 2012 there are places with WIFI access! And there is your cell phone! Okay maybe I feel a little irritated and disappointed. Damn those expectations but if you don't have expectations then what are you standards? With that vent being let out!

 I do think that my book has an amazing storyline and not just for the LGBT community but anyone who likes a great thriller and amazing sex!!! Yes amazing sex! Girl on girl and some good penis and vagina scenes also! Very descriptive! I am just saying! check out the link here! www.thelwordbyym.com *SMILES*

First Blog

First Blog...

My question and only question to any of my readers is simply are you living or existing?

To live-my definition is to take risk. Don't worry about yesterday because it already happened and you are not a psychic so please don't try to predict the future.

I could ramble on and on about this but at the end of the day it is still your life.